
Stonewall: Key Turning Point—Not Starting Point—in LGBTQ Rights Movement
It’s time for me to make peace with Stonewall.
For the past three decades, I’ve done battle with the Stonewall riots, and I’m worn out. The fight began in the summer of 1988 when I first discovered that Stonewall didn’t mark the beginning of what was then called the gay civil rights movement.
I was shocked to learn that the conflict between bar patrons and the New York City police that began after a raid in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, on Christopher Street in Greenwich Village came 19 years after the founding of the Mattachine Society, the first of the “homophile” organizations. It wasn’t even the first time that “gay people fought back” against police repression. Or the second. Or even the third!

Members of the Mattachine Society, one of the earliest gay rights organizations in the U.S., pose for a rare photograph at a Christmas party in 1951. ©Courtesy John Gruber via Eric Marcus
“I’m not a historian or an academic,” I protested. But the editor liked how I’d written dialogue in my first book, The Male Couple’s Guide, and thought I could write the kind of book that would be of interest to a general audience. Besides, he told me, he wanted someone who was fresh to the subject, someone who came to it without preconceptions.
I was definitely fresh to the subject: I knew almost nothing about my history beyond what I’d researched on my own in 1977 (for a freshman year paper on the “marginal man” sociological theory), picked up from attending hearings at New York’s City Hall for an ill-fated gay rights bill in the early 1980s, and saw from standing on the sidelines at a handful of pride marches in San Francisco and New York.
Still, I was intrigued by the idea, and I was already keenly aware of the limits on how far I could advance at CBS, where a senior executive told me an openly gay correspondent would never be on camera. So I decided to leave and take on this new challenge.

Protestors march in the first demonstration for homosexual civil rights at the U.S. Army Induction Center in New York City in 1964. One of the signs reads: “Homosexuals Died for U.S., Too.” ©New York Public Library Digital Collections
I should have blamed my education—or lack of education—but instead I blamed Stonewall. Stonewall was like the guy at the party who sucks all the air out of the room. Everything starts with him, and there’s no space left for anyone else to get a word in edgewise.
As I began conducting interviews with some of the earliest, pre-Stonewall activists, my anger only grew stronger. I found myself channeling the rage and hurt that so many of the people I interviewed experienced over having seen their accomplishments diminished or ignored every time they heard or read that Stonewall marked the beginning of “the modern gay rights movement.”

Gay rights activist Craig Rodwell at Jacob Riis Park, a popular gay beach in Queens, New York, in 1960. Rodwell was Vice President of New York’s Mattachine Society and founder of the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, which was open for over 40 years. © New York Public Library Digital Collections
They did this at a time when speaking out could cost you your job, your family, and even your home. Almost no one listened, but they persisted.
My battle plan quickly came into view. I’d put Stonewall in its rightful place in history as I came to see it through my conversations with the people who had lived that history. Stonewall would be a historic point of inflection, but given how much play it had already received, I wouldn’t give it undue attention. My focus would be on what came before and after.
Of course, it hadn’t occurred to me at the time that in choosing how much (or little) “play” to give Stonewall, I would be presenting Stonewall to readers through my own lens. Like anyone writing about history, I brought my personal subjectivity to the page.

Activist Barbara Gittings pickets at the White House in 1965; she, her partner Kay Tobin Lahusen, and fellow activist Frank Kameny led early gay and lesbian rights demonstrations in Washington, D.C., and Philadelphia. ©Kay Tobin/New York Public Library Digital Collections
Over that time, I like to think I’ve gained a clearer perspective on what Stonewall was. The image that comes to mind is that of an open flame and a can of gasoline. The open flame was a volatile mix of rage and yearning—the rage of an oppressed people who yearned to live without fear of being hounded by the police, fired from their jobs, scorned by their loved ones, demonized by the church, and diagnosed and tortured by psychiatrists. That open flame burned in every major city in the country during an era when large-scale confrontations with the police—over the Vietnam War and black civil rights—were already commonplace.
It was in that context that the police raided the Stonewall bar in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, unwittingly providing the fuel that ultimately blew the movement wide open. But the explosive growth that followed wasn’t an accident.

Frank Kameny and other members of Mattachine Society of Washington, D.C., participate in New York City’s first Pride March in 1970. ©Kay Tobin/New York Public Library Digital Collections
So the riot may have been spontaneous, but the dramatic growth of the movement that came in the aftermath of the riots would not have been possible without the groundwork laid by the pre-Stonewall homophiles.

Members of New York’s Mattachine Society stage a sip-in at Julius’ bar to challenge the State Liquor Authority’s discriminatory policy of revoking licenses from bars that served gay men and lesbians. The event led to legitimate gay bars in the city. ©Fred W. McDarrah, courtesy of his estate
For example, take the legendary kick line of high-heeled drag queens on Christopher Street outside the Stonewall challenging a phalanx of policemen in riot gear and chanting:
“We are the Village girls, we wear our hair in curls, we wear our dungarees above our nellie knees…”
The kick line and chant were real, but the high-heeled drag queens were actually street kids, mostly teenagers, “flames” in various degrees of “scare drag”—not dresses and wigs, and definitely not wearing high heels. The street kids knew better. As Martin Boyce, who was at Stonewall the night of the riot, explained to me, you can’t run from the police in heels. But the idea and image of high-kicking, high-heeled rioters in full drag makes for a more cinematic story.

Members of the Gay Activists Alliance, one of many advocacy groups formed after Stonewall, picket in New York. ©Kay Tobin/New York Public Library Digital Collections
But I like to think that we can still find plenty of common ground: that Stonewall was a pivotal event in the LGBTQ civil rights movement, that it was an opportunity seized upon by activists who recognized its potential as both a catalyst and a symbol, and that they had the creativity and foresight to enshrine Stonewall as a symbol by tying it to an annual event—protest, pride march, festival, picnic, fun run, etc.

My mother, Cecilia Marcus, and me at the 1993 March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay, and Bi Equal Rights and Liberation
As I leave the Stonewall battlefield and reflect on the 50th anniversary of the uprising, I’m happy to let the people who were closest to the 1969 events be the ones to tell the story of what happened—through their recorded oral histories or printed testimonies. And if you’re looking for the definitive, fact-based account of what happened, David Carter’s Stonewall is it.
But while I still care deeply about the facts, what I’m more interested in now is how people experience the idea of Stonewall, what it means to them, and how it inspires them in their lives today. Just don’t try to suggest that Stonewall was the “start of the modern gay rights movement,” or “where pride began.” I still have some fight left in me.
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